They say that the first impression is the best impression. But I tend to disagree with that. First impressions aren’t always the best. That’s what I feel. Sometimes, nope scratch that, most of the time, it takes so long to really know a person. Many a time, our first impression about a person isn’t always correct. Over the course of time, as certain masks peel away, their behavior makes us realize the person who they really are… In that case, the first impression might be the best because the impression that we have about them might decrease in value when we get to know them better. Right? That’s what I’ve observed. But then I can’t exactly say that I’m a very good judge of character, but it’s so hard and unfair to base your assessment on first impressions alone. While first impressions may or may not be the best (I’ll leave that open to debate in the comments section!), I think that it’s the last impression that’s closer to reality. And that’s what matters. Because it is my opinion that first impressions may not always be the right one…
This doesn’t apply to people alone. I’ve observed the same with blog posts.. and animals! Sometimes when I’m writing a draft, I feel that particular post will perform very well. But I have been wrong about that. Certain posts about which I didn’t have many expectations initially have performed excellently and went on to become one of my top posts! And I’ve ended up cuddling many dogs/puppies/cats/kittens that growled at me initially. So yes, first impressions aren’t always right (or the best!) š
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So… What’s your opinion?
Are first impressions always the best? Feel free to claim the comments section! š
Author’s Note:
It’s been a while since I posted an actual rambling post on “My Random Ramblings”. For quite a long while, I’d been on a fiction writing marathon that I feared I’d have to change my blog name to tiny tales, six-word stories, and more fiction! š No, that isn’t a bad thing. Don’t get me wrong – I love writing fiction but no blog of mine would be complete and uniquely me if it doesn’t have an element of randomness. ššš
Written in response to today’sĀ Daily Prompt: Impression
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Like they always say, “Everyone deserves a second chance” š although I am largely in favour of the first impression š
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Thanks for sharing your thoughts! I tend to hang on to the fact that the first impression isn’t always the right one.. š
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I agree with youš
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Glad to know that, dear! š
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First impressions aren’t always the best. I think sometimes we may misjudge a person based on first impression without actually getting to know them. That’s what I think in my opinion
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Yes. That’s what I think too!
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never ever
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Yes!
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I te d to agree with the saying first impressions are the best. For me,what my gut has told me about someone has often been right, and the times when I’ve disregarded my gut feeling… I’ve always been in trouble. But each person is different. Maybe I’m just weird š
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At times my gut feeling has turned out to be wrong. So now, I’m wary of it! šš Good for you that you’ve got such a great intuition! No dear, you’re not weird. You just have to have a super accurate gut feeling! š
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Lol! Or be weird, like having a sixth sense š
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Having a sixth sense is awesome! And comes in handy too, right! Wish I had that!! š My Spidey senses are way too desensitized. ššš
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LOL!!! š
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You are absolutely right…we should know about the person along the course of time
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Glad to know that you’re in agreement! š We can’t jump to conclusions based on first impressions.
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I agree with you in a way because there are a lot of people in my life who I didn’t have a great first impression of but now truly like and care about and on the other hand there are people I liked when we first met but don’t anymore. I think it’s just that when you first meet someone you are both kind of uncomfortable and don’t know anything about each other but later on you open up and learn so much about the other person from which we tend to decide whether we like them or not.
On the other hand there are some people who make a great first impression on you and remain in your good books. And others who you just don’t like from the moment you meet them and you just end up never liking them.
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I’m sorry this ended up in the spam folder!
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Don’t worry about it it’s totally okay! It’s WP fault for not realising this can’t be spam because I follow you and it doesn’t have any links š
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WP can be so difficult at times! Bad WP. But I’ll keep checking the folder regularly. š Your comments will be making a reappearance.
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Hahaha please do! I hate getting stuck in spam jail š
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I’ll always bail you out. You can always count on me. šš
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Hehehe thanks! You must be a fun person to play Monopoly with! You can always be counted on when someone’s in jail š
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ššššš I can neither confirm nor deny that fact!
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Lol never mind that šš
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Well said. I’m in total agreement. I’m with you on this. There’s no way to know for sure. We can’t generalize it because there are so many kinds of people and only time can tell how wrong/right we’re about judging people’s characters!
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Yeah exactly and some people we begin judging them before we even meet them or get to know them like a friend of our friend is probably someone you would probably like more and an enemy of a friend is probably someone you’ll dislike even without knowing more about them!
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Yeah.. having mutual friends does help.
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Yeah definitely.
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Awesome post! I think my last comment got stuck in your spam!
I was just saying how I agree that some people even though they don’t make a great first impression they still end up being one of your closest friends however others who make great first impressions end up being people you don’t really like or get along with.
However on the other hand I think sometimes first impressions do matter because some people just make horrible first impressions and even though you give them more chances there just remains something about them that you don’t like and vice versa.
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I feel that it’s hard to know. With some people, you can connect instantaneously and that connection remains. But with some others, it fades away as time goes by. There are some others who get on your nerves at the start itself. They may grow on us or we’ll still feel annoyed by them! It’s so hard to generalize, right??
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Yes it is so difficult!
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Yes! Our only option is to wait for time to reveal the truth..
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Awesome post! I think my earlier comments are getting stuck in your spam!
I think first impressions aren’t always important because some people are really shy and closed off at first and I know because I’m like that too just how hard it can be to make a good first impression! Sometimes people you start of not really clicking with can end up becoming your closest friends and vice versa.
On the other hand first impressions are sometimes important and humans to tend to decide whether or not they like you depending on your first impression. It’s not even always consciously that we decide but we do and that’s why sometimes people who we have a bad first impression of just always seem a little off to us and we tend to give people who make a good impression on us more chances.
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So true! Sometimes people who we may not like at first can go on to become our best friends and the vice versa too! On a subconscious level, maybe first impressions are what make those decisions for us. But I really try to hold off on such decisions until I really know a person. It’s all so complicated, isn’t it!? I’m sorry this ended up in my spam and that it took me a while to rescue it. I’d been travelling and I was unable to check the spam folder! Sorry š
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Don’t worry about it! Actually the problem is with WP lot’s of my followers are getting stuck in my spam too! I think WP has a big or something!
Yeah it’s all very complicated mainly because we can’t control our unconscious. I try not to judge people on their first impression either but unfortunately most people do judge others depending on first impressions.
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Yes, some people do that! Everyone deserves a chance. First impressions can’t be trusted entirely. Glad to know that you’re with me on this.
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Yeah I definitely agree!
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First impressions are mostly never the best. I feel as though people see my best as the affiliation progresses.
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Only time can tell. Thanks for stopping by and sharing your views. š
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You’re welcome
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Agreed with above reader, everyone deserves a second chance
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A second chance to make an impression… Yes they do. We can’t rely on first impressions alone. Thanks for stopping by, Charlene. š
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Nope, we cannot tell who someone is by a first impression. They can be so wrong.
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Yes, it’s so hard to tell. And they can be wrong. Glad to know that you’re with me on that. š
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First impression can go both ways. Either you like them instantly and as days go by you don’t or you don’t like them and eventually start to.
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Yes. We can’t exactly generalize it. That’s why I don’t rely heavily on first impressions! Thanks for sharing your views. āŗ
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I try not to judge people so I guess I don’t really believe in first impressions. But of late I have come to accept that we or at least I, see “people not as they are but as we are” (I am). Even my last impressions are not correct – just when I think I have someone pegged down or bracketed, there they go off on a tangent determined to destroy every illusion…
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I get what you mean… Humans are really hard to understand, right! “Seeing people not as they are but as we are” – the more I think about it, the more it makes sense! That’s a very good point that you’ve raised, Dahlia! Thank you so much for stopping by and sharing your thoughts. š
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Thanks for the space to air my two cents worth š
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Thanks for taking the time to join the conversation! So glad to have you here. ššš
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Yes! Happy to have met you too š
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Thank you ššš
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In my case, first impressions are always wrong. I usually start admiring the people I hate initially šš
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Ohhh I can relate to that. I can be so wrong about people too! Only time can reveal the true nature of anyone’s character!
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Not sure of the Impressions being the perfect former or lateral, but your writings gives a True impression for sure that you have got a class š
Keep penning
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That comment made my day. Thank you so much for stopping by and I’m sorry about the late reply! Do keep visiting. š
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It depends. Sometimes there is someone who on first impression you think “oh that person seems horrible” and he/she turns out to be lovely. Sometimes there are people who you think, looking at them, are angels. And they turn out to be devils.
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Yes. First impressions cannot be relied upon at all. I completely agree with what you said. š Thanks for stopping by and sharing your thoughts. My sincere apologies for the delayed reply!
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wow
loved your writing
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Thanks very much!
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Interesting post, Shweta. First impression has gone both ways for me. Some good experiences, some bad ones. š So taking time is better, I feel.
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Thank you, Aishwarya for going back into the archives and digging up this post. It’s good to take time. Time reveals what we would miss otherwise.
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I happened to come across this post while reading a recent post of yours. I was fascinated with the title. š
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