Justice: Is it too much to ask for?

Before I start, let me make something very clear. There are many decent men out there in this world. Yes, I know that. This post is not about or meant for any of them.

#MeToo was a sensational status that stirred up quite a storm on Facebook and Twitter. There were millions to talk about this issue and that’s when we are not taking into consideration, the ones who haven’t yet dared to speak up and those who don’t have access to any of these social media.

And barely a few months after that storm, came the news of the most brutal rape and murder to be reported till date. My heart breaks at the very thought that a child had to undergo so much pain and suffering, all at the very tender age of eight. The fact that this premeditated crime had several underlying motives should be an indicator of how far this country has fallen.

The number of heinous crimes continues to be on the rise. Yet one thing remains elusive. The one common thread that ties together all these reported cases – justice. It is estimated that only 1 in 4 rape cases ends in conviction. Keep in mind, that according to the NCRB’s Crime Statistics 2016, a total of 38974 rape cases alone were reported. Shocking, isn’t it?

Almost every woman must have had at least one experience in her life, where she was made to feel uncomfortable in her own skin. The sheer number of women who have faced bitter experiences at the hands of the other gender is astounding. But it seems to me that it’s almost as if some men don’t know how to treat women. It’s either that, or they chose not to. The latter might seem shocking and unbelievable, but compared to all the heinous crimes these monsters are capable of, it’s nothing.

When I was a kid, I was under the impression that monsters only existed in horror flicks (and under my bed!) and that they only operated under the cover of darkness. As I grew older, I realized that there were so many different species of monsters… monsters, that made the ones under my bed seem meek and tame.

Monsters who no longer limit their reign of terror to the cover of darkness.

Monsters who think that the length of our dresses or the way we walk provokes them.

Monsters because of whom our loved ones worry themselves sick, whenever we don’t get back home at the usual time.

Monsters whose eyes never leave your body, scanning you from head to toe, with a scathing intensity that instantly unsettles you.

Monsters who think that women/girls are duty bound to keep their mouths shut and suffer in silence.

Monsters who belittle women and girls and strip their souls bare with their ghastly, vulgar comments.

Monsters who do not hesitate to torture their hapless victims, be it a lone woman on a moving bus or a poor, helpless child.

Monsters who do not hesitate to kill just so they can cover up their lust-driven crimes.

Monsters who never think twice before raping kids or the aged.

Monsters, to whom, women are just objects to satisfy their needs and demands.

Monsters who take out their frustration and lack of courage on their wives and kids as they beat them black and blue.

Monsters who demand their wives to get an abortion because the gender of the child wasn’t to their liking.

Monsters who roam about trying their best to make the lives of women/girls insufferable.

Monsters who think that sexual innuendos and making sexist jokes are absolutely okay.

Monsters who can’t resist from catcalling and whistling, whenever their eyes land on an unsuspecting female, especially if the said female happens to be alone.

Monsters who can’t quite keep their hands to themselves within the confines of a crowded public transport system.

Monsters whose appearances are deceiving, in stark contrast to their conniving, criminal minds.

Monsters who love to intimidate and scare women by (mis)using their power and position.

Monsters who revel in passing snide remarks and snigger at their own misogynistic remarks.

Monsters who make it seem as though “Male Chauvinistic Pig” is too mild a term to describe them.

Monsters, whose very existence, make self-defense classes a necessity.

Monsters who aren’t fit to roam freely in society. (But that’s what they do.)

Monsters who invade and terrorize our minds in our darkest nightmares.

Monsters who get off with a slight punishment or worse, none at all, because they have very strong allies who have got their backs.

Monsters who make you question whether humanity is, indeed, a dying virtue.

The list is endless. But I’d better stop now, or this post could go on forever.

These monsters can’t be tamed. The effort required to round them up and ensure that adequate punishment is meted out, is enormous. And let’s face it, that’s impossible. What we can do, however, is to bring up a better generation to shape a bright future. A future where no woman is made to feel vulnerable, scared or preyed upon. Every child should be taught to respect all genders equally. No gender is superior to another. But everyone has a choice to rise above the others and lead by example.

Protection and segregation by gender are not what women need. What we do need are changes in attitudes, perceptions, the penal code, and the society. Even a small change can go a long way. We need to stop watching/following movies, books and/or series that tend to glorify even the mildest of these monsters. On another note, women shouldn’t turn on each other but instead, we should have each other’s backs. Enough is enough. We may be the fair gender, but we are not a gender who should be taken for granted. And we will not be silenced.

But, what more will it take to achieve the ever elusive justice for the victims? How many more Nirbhayas, Soumayas, and Asifas will have to sacrifice their lives? How many more protests and candlelight vigils would have to be conducted? How many hashtags will have to trend worldwide to stir our judiciary into action?

Alas, these are questions that will remain unanswered for God-alone-knows-how-long. But then again, the fact that the latest of these crimes took place inside a place of worship would make one question their faith in God, too.

*This blog post should have been published a long time ago. But I had submitted this to a newspaper and I had to wait and see whether it would be published. As you might have guessed already, it wasn’t published. That’s when I decided to publish it here.

#SomeThingsHaveToBeSaid

P.S: This is a longer, edited version of what I’d written originally.

Image courtesy: Pixabay

© 2018 Shweta Suresh. All rights reserved.

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12 thoughts on “Justice: Is it too much to ask for?

  1. I can only imagine the anger , anguish and disappointment you must feel . I feel the same . Sadly , it would seem that no amount of outrage, public awareness will change this evil gene in our DNA. Perhaps we should put all these rapists in a lab and see what motivates them . Perhaps then we may just be able to find a solution to this problem.
    And as for justice . Enough is enough! All men accused of rape should be HUNG and quartered and fed to the wolves .
    I know this punishment is harsh but the fear of being so treated may just mitigate the horror that women have to face everywhere.

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    1. I know. The law should be such that the very thought of it should make their knees shudder before they even dare to think about committing a rape. Capital crimes do call for capital punishment. It’s one way to ensure that the crime stats fall down as far as rape is concerned. At least, I hope so. If even capital punishment can’t keep these crimes on the decline, our society is beyond redemption.

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  2. These monstrous scoundrels hiding in the facade of men should be tortured to death…They should be alive to face the torture every minute and every hour..And no punishment is enough … My heart bleeds for the little girls…

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    1. True. Very true. Nothing will come close to the terror and torture that were inflicted on these hapless victims. Sadly, the law prevents anyone from taking an eye for an eye. If that were the case, these rascals wouldn’t even dare to think about doing it.

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  3. The #MeToo movement has given voice to women, but not all. As you said, those in India getting raped, do not even get a chance to say “me too”; they are killed by those monsters. Monster is the right word, for the rapist is no longer human. When the system fails, lynch mobs should start to castrate rapists in the middle of the street.

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    1. Yes. They don’t live to tell their stories. Even monster seems like a mild term to describe them.. who wouldn’t even hesitate to do unspeakable things, not even sparing the babies or the aged. When the system fails, society should rise up, I guess. But where exactly does it leave us when these hardened criminals are backed by forces that are much more powerful and resourceful than any of us?

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  4. Whenever I read such things happening to women and kids that stays on in my mind for days, I feel helpless. Also I feel scared realizing that I am a father and that I have a little daughter who has to face such a society which is filled with all kinds of monsters lurking around. Yes, monsters under the bed or in stories seem nothing in comparison. Well written.

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    1. The constant fear that our loved ones are not safe is tough to live with. But it’s something that we have to live with, especially in today’s world. Despite the progress that we’ve made, this is one area where we haven’t made much progress at all. Or maybe, we have. At least, some are being brave enough to speak up now. Thank you so much for stopping by and sharing your thoughts. Much appreciated!

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  5. You have poured your heart in this post Shweta. What you said is absolutely true. We don’t need protection, we need the change in the mindset, attitude. That will do its job.

    #MothersGurukulreads #Myfriendalexa

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    1. This is one topic that tends to infuriate and disappoint me at the same time. So naturally, it reflects in my writing. A
      I strongly believe that a shift towards the right mindset can work wonders. Thank you so much for reading!

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